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儿子的练习作文之四  

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儿子的练习作文之四

The historical of family is playing an important role in people’s quality of lives. And how to become a happy family is always mentioned by many people. However, most individuals spend a large proportion of their lives in a family situation. This is because people eager have a happy family and people whether are a good upbringing is often affected by family. This essay is going to indicates several reasons for the secrets of happy family related with community, positive marriage and wisdom.< xmlnamespace prefix ="o" ns ="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

 

First of all, communication is the way let other people know about your ideas and feels. There are many social issues the communication is how important for a happy family. One of the significant reasons is that if families members have a sense of spend time together and they communicate extremely well, and they cope well with stress or crises. They would not tend to become a trouble family. This is because a strong family is more competence in solving problems than trouble family. According to Epstein, Bishop, Ryan, Miller and Keitner (1993) suggest that “family communication refers to the way verbal and non-verbal information is exchanged between family members”. Communication involves the ability to pay attention to others thinking and feeling. For instance, a student has already graduated university but he does not find a suitable job for himself, when he felt frustrated, helpless. If his family members can come out to encourage or comfort him, he would not be degenerate. After that, he has more confidence to find job. In other words, an important part of communication is not just talking that a good listener is also effect communication between family members. In a happy family, every family members are good listener, they give the opportunity to others saying, they sincere absorb each other’s advantages and change the disadvantages of each other. They are also good at asking and answer questions to each other rather than mind-read. Afterwards, if a disagreement arises, they will be very patient correct each other and explain why.

 

Second of all, a happy family is built on a happy marriage. According to Aspin(2009) suggest that “marriage should arrange in relation to individual needs rather than family needs”. When people married before, they may experience a lot of things. For example, a couple can be like a friend because they can think a moment about each other how they are be together and do they listen to one other or pay attention to what their friend says. Romino (2006) “who research marriage and relationships say that the key to a great marriage is a great friendship, friend like being together”. In addition, positive marriage is also a good impact of children, when children maturing, they must need their parents’ care and live in a healthy family. This is because children need grow up healthily in a parental love. Beside, a couple need understand and concern each other, such as some of them get sick or have misunderstand with each other in the lives, if they can pay more attention or can be settled as soon as possible, the atmosphere would be better between couples. In strong families, they have the ability to changing circumstances and stressful situations.

Third of all, the wisdom is an essential of a happy family. If family members want to get along with each other wellbeing, they should have wisdom. In a happy family, family members do something wrong, even repeatedly. Others will never anger, instead particularly affectionate to bumbler and explain how to correct mistake. For instance, if one of family member has a dream, other members will try to help him to achieved and any hard work will resolve by them. On the other hand, in strong families, when members talk with each other, they say every sentence should be thought before they speak. This is because family members say any suggestion or attitude may be able to easily affect other’s mind.     

 

In conclusion, communication, positive marriage and wisdom have an extremely effect in a happy family. Even it can change the direction of family member life. If people expect to have a successful family, they should put in the same effort with each other. It is through that family member are able to resolve the unavoidable problems that arise in all families.

 

 

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